Staff Training #2: Becoming a Youth Development Professional and Speaking of Camp
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What did you think ladies?
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Video #1 (Youth Development Prof.):
\nI thought this video made great points about turning our focus from ourselves to the campers. Being aware of our actions is a huge part, whether it is what we say or how we act, campers pick up on our attitudes and base theirs on us. I really liked how they mentioned that counselors can help get the campers moving and make something as random as a free 20 minutes before dinner into a time for fun and games. Again, this video stresses the importance of spending time with our campers and getting to know them, which makes the camp experience so much better for everyone.
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\nVideo #2 (Speaking of Camp):
\nI loved how this video gave us the parents perspective of what they want for their child at camp. I think it’s important that we understand what makes our campers individuals, and not just think of them as a group because they are similar ages. Another point they made was about being aware of situations that we may not always seen right in front of us, such as bullying or campers being left out. A balance between pushing the campers to try new things and meeting new people and making them feel comfortable and happy in the camp environment is something I hope to work on. -
Video #1:
\nI really enjoyed this video! So much more than the other because I think that personally moving from ME to KIDS is important and difficult for me. I liked that the video constantly reminded the viewer that they have the ability to make a powerful impact, as well as the responsibility they are taking on is huge. It is easy to forget that these campers are worrying parents’ kids. I always try to keep that in the back of my mind, but it is easy to lose sight of it. I think that the initiative aspect is very important to RBC because we do have downtime when campers need something to do if they don’t want to swim, and it is easy for me to think that everyone has something to do. The other part of KIDS that I think really applies to RBC is the discretion aspect. With most of us coming right from college or high school, we forget how often we use inappropriate language or talk about boys as the center of our universe. Kids truly do mimic everything, I know I mimicked my campers when I was a counselor.
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\nThis video too was really interesting to me. While I get my own parents’ perspective on camp and what counselors meant to them (Mommy Letters are a dream come true), it is nice to see what other parents say because in the end, we are taking on the responsibility for their kids. I loved hearing from parents, and I love that they realize that what we can do is special. I really liked when the parents said that one of the main aspects of our job is to understand the differences of each camper. Sometimes we lump all the campers together, and forget that each child needs something different from us.
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\nHowever, the thing that I HATE about these videos is how camp sick I get after watching them!! All I can think about is camp, and not finals! -
Evening, everyone!
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\nFirst of all, the first video made me realize the array of personalities that we as counselors will have the pleasure of meeting. That is one thing I look forward to the most…getting to know each camper, their strengths, and their gifts. I like how the words KIDS and ME were broken down in an acrostic format, to sum the video up. Also, the bit about starting up a random game before dinner or something is great to keep in mind.
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\nThe second video was VERY helpful. Hearing some feedback from parents is extremely encouraging. I can hear my parents saying the same thing about ME when I left for college, worrying about homesickness, injury, fitting in, etc. We are taking care of people’s babies, and knowing the parents expectations is imperative.
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\nTake care, everyone.
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I really liked that in the first video it made a point of reminding us that we are the adults at camp. I know it can be easy to get caught up in drama when you are spending so much time with the same people, so I think that it is really important to keep everything in perspective and not sweat the small stuff. I also loved that they said something like the campers will listen to us if we listen to them. You never realize how much of an impact you can make by simply letting the campers express themselves and being there when they just need to know that someone is listening.
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\nIn the second video I appreciated that one of the parents mentioned being worried about not knowing their child’s counselor. I sometimes forget that while I am bonding with the child, the parent is left worrying about all the unknowns. I love that RBC has the letters home to help alleviate some of the parents’ concern. And they were totally right when they said we have the best job in the world. I can’t wait for this summer! -
I like that the first video really exemplified the responsibilites of a counselor. Slacking off not only affects you, but your campers as well. They depend on you to be there, whether it’s for an activity or if they just need someone to talk to.
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\nAs for the second video, it’s easy to understand the concerns of the parents. Sending your children to camp is a big decision. It’s a new enviornment with many new people, which would naturally cause parents to want to know what is going on with their children at all times. They are entrusting the life and safety of their children with the counselors, and it’s importnt to maintain that trust and make sure that the children are able enjoy the camp experience. -
The first video I think is the most helpful about preparing for camp; the switch from a camper to a counselor is going to be a massive as well as difficult one to make. However, I think that this switch will be the most rewarding part of being a counselor. Just like when you do community service or even simply help out a friend, you get so much FOR YOURSELF out of not thinking about yourself at all. Thats why this switch has excited me so much! I know being a counselor will be just as, if not more, rewarding as being a camper.
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\nThe second video was very informative. I have never been scared of talking to parents or interacting with them, but I am, nevertheless, nervous about talking to the parents of children who I will be responsible for. This responsibility in itself is grandiose, but the added pressure of ensuring these parents that I am capable is another entire problem! I remember I never wrote my mom at camp (with all of the fun activities and such keeping me busy), but I know she treasured the emails sent home about my progress. Establishing this sort of bond with the parents is a necessity I believe. -
Video #1 – I think this video is SUPER helpful!! It’s good to have a reminder that the kids mimic everything we do, especially our attitudes. I want to always have a cheerful attitude while I’m at camp, so my campers will be more willing to get involved and have a good attitude about trying new things! I know that I will also need to work hard during free time to initiate activities. I know it will sometimes be hard not to just relax during those few minutes, but I also know that priceless memories can be made even in short amounts of time.
I don’t want to be remembered as the counselor who did the bare minimum, I want to be the one who goes the extra mile.
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\nVideo #2 – I thought this was a great video. It is really nice to hear that we are appreciated for all we do. We always have to remember that, even on hard days! I think my favorite piece of advice was to find something in every child that you can connect with and love. That is so important. If you truly connect with your campers, it will make camp such a more fulfilling experience! I think the thing that I’m most worried about at camp is closing day!! I love working with kids, and I know that giving them back to their parents will be tough, but so rewarding! I also want to be very careful of my behavior around my campers, because I want them to be able to tell their parents positive things about camp, not the time their counselor got angry, or said a bad word!
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\nI’m definitely with Mackenzie on the camp-sickness!! Every video I watch makes me so antsy for camp!! -
The first video gave great perspective on how to really train yourself into getting into that mindset of switching from ME to KIDS. I can’t wait to experience that feeling watching my campers learn new and exciting things while at Rockbrook. I loved this video. Honestly, coming into my first year as a full time counselor I had absolutely NO idea you all watched videos, posted on a forum, and took quizzes. I feel so prepared and its getting me excited to see everyone!
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\nOkay guys, the second video gave me goosebumbs. I almost pictured Sarah, Jeff, Mandy, Charlotte, Jessi, and even Jerry talking to me about all of those things that we as counselors need to offer to our campers. I loved that the video gave us the perspective from the parents. I know if we had filmed my parents they would of said all of that plus much much more. (My mother is often the little chatterbox ) I know that this video showed what my parents wanted for me when I was a camper and I know this is what I’m going to give to my campers while they are with me at camp! Can’t wait to see everyone -
My favorite part of this video was the part about remembering that you are the adult in the situation. With so many activities and so many friends amongst the staff, it can be hard for us to not act like kids. However, there is a balance between having fun and being responsible. One thing that I can truly attest to is the fact that when you see your campers having fun, you will have fun. They are your priority and their happiness is the most important thing. Sometimes it is hard to not focus on the ME because that is how we spend so much of our lives outside of camp, but camp really does provide a setting that allows us to explore another side of ourselves and really focus on the KIDS.
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i think that both of them clearly define what a young leader needs to be successful. I liked the first video, I liked the scenarios that he used and the acronyms used. It makes memorizing what to expect become clearer to me. The second video just deepened my understanding. Can’t wait until the summer!!
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P.s. Video 2 was really neat because it was able to see what the parents point of view on camp was and it was as if they were talking to us personally.
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Wonderful comments!
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\nASHLEY’S discussion about utilizing those quick, free moments at camp is wonderful. Throughout the summer we will all feel a bit sluggish. During these moments it’s important to get reengaged with camp. More than likely you will catch your “second wind” from your girls. (They will make you laugh your head off!!) The more you put into camp, the more you’ll get out of it. The moment we become part of camp is the moment camp become part of us.
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\nMAKENZIE made a great point when she mentioned that, in a sense, we step out of our own world to enter into camp world. In camp world it’s suddenly less about you and more about your campers. Throughout camp you’ll find yourself taking on many different roles. A camp counselor is basically a mom, big sister, teacher, cheerleader, coach, counselor, ect….all rolled into one. It’s a lot to think about, but when you are focused on your girls you’ll want to provide support for them in any way that you can.
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\nKRISTEN spoke to parent feelings. One couple agreed that we have the coolest job in the world! So true. One set of parents noted that their camper always seems a bit more grown up when they return from camp. We have the power to assist in this process. Incredible! If you love what you do then you don’t work a day in your life!
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\nBRITTANY hit the nail on the head when she described how easy it is to get caught up in the drama of your workplace. As with any group of coworkers, it is natural to have a few issues here and there. Add to this that you work, eat, sleep, and spend most of your time with other counselors- YIKES! I can almost guarantee that at one point or another a counselor (or a director, or a camper, or whomever) will do something that you may not necessary agree with. Like Brittany said, we must remember that we are the adults of camp. We set the pace and attitude of the environment. In that moment of frustration take a step back and try to focus on the big picture.
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\nCARRIE brought up a major topic- trust. Parents and campers alike place their complete trust and faith in us. They expect nothing short of excellence. Let’s strive to give this to them! (You are all excellent or else you wouldn’t be a part of RBC!!!)
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\nMAISIE spoke to parent communication at Rockbrook. This so important to us. During orientation we will discuss the various ways in which we communicate with parents throughout the summer. However, it can still be a bit nerve racking when the time comes to make that contact. Just relax and breathe. Once you’re in the moment you’ll know what to say.
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\nSTEPHANIE’S mention of the “extra mile” is so important at camp. This reminds me of the commercial where a women notices someone doing something nice. This inspires her to hold open a door for a blind man. Another stranger observes this and then does something sweet for someone else (or some variation thereof.) The “pass it on effect”. Just watch- when you go out of your way at camp your actions will become contagious!
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\nRHIANA mentioned how much she loved the parent video. Throughout the summer take some time to put yourself in the parent’s shoes. If this was my daughter how would I want her counselor to react to her? It will help us keep things in perspective.
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\nSAVANNAH mentioned the balance we must maintain as a counselor. In one aspect we are expected to get down on the camper’s level and get a little silly. On the other hand, responsibility is a requirement. These may seem like opposite entities, but at camp these qualities go hand-in-hand.
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\nNICOLE (and Kristen) mentioned the acrostic-style of explanation in the first video. This is very interesting. Just how we as counselors responded to both a verbal and written explanation of the these particular concepts, campers also require different styles of instruction. This is a bit off-topic to the video, but something to keep in mind none the less. Coming out of a college or professional environment it is easy to forget that most of our campers are still developing cognitively. During orientation we’ll discuss multiple ways to grasp and hold campers’ interest. -
This first video is so extremely important. Especially if you are at training at the beginning of the summer, you’re going to get really excited about making new friends among the super-amazing staff, but the campers aren’t going to seem that real to you–and then they arrive! You might not see the people you hung out with during orientation as much as you though you would. IT’S OK! There is a potential friend in everyone at camp, and that includes your campers! Camp is a blast as a counselor, but at the end of the day (and the beginning and middle too!) it is all about the campers. So try and keep in mind that the fun you have should be strongly linked to the fun your campers have.
\nAlso, the point about kindness can really go a long way at a summer camp. If a girl is lonely, kindness from a counselor can be like having a movie star ask you if you want to get coffee. You’re a big deal to them, so deserve the reverence they give you. If a girl is being a sour-puss, do not give her attitude or immediately punish her, just be kind! You’re setting a good example for her and the other girls as well. And believe me, they’ll notice because they notice everything!
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\nThe Speaking of Camp video was wonderful too and I particularly loved the Lasting Benefits section
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\nUnfortunately I have to go to dinner right now, so I can’t talk about that video the rest of the way, but I’d suggest to anyone who is nervous about parents to remember that they just want you to be interested in their child, and that shouldn’t be hard to do if you’re following the ME to KIDS thing! -
I feel the need to share with you all that I choked on a pretzel while watching these videos, George Dubya style. Luckily, it was the stick style so a few forceful coughs got the job done.
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\nThe first video’s message about ME and KIDS is so important. As students in college and high school, we’re accustomed to addressing our priorities first. It’s just the way it is! But all of that goes out the window at camp. I know for a fact that no one here is going to Rockbrook just to focus on their personal needs- we work at camp to help others and create meaningful relationships. KIDS is a message that transcends the camposphere and can be applied to our everyday lives. I also sincerely hope that during the camp romance section, ALL OF YOU thought about “Wet Hot American Summer.”
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\nWhile watching the second video, I liked how the narrator described us a Surrogate Caregivers. What an awesome title! It places a great deal of responsibility on us, though. When one of the fathers said that his greatest fear is “leaving his child at camp”, I really thought about the concept of camp and how incredibly trusting parents have to be in order to leave their precious children in the hands of young adults. -
I liked how the first video emphasized the shift from life being all about oneself, to it being all about the campers. I remember my favorite counselors and the ones who I learned the most from were those who hung out with their campers the most. Campers really do want you there for them as a role model and friend. A counselor can make the camp experience so much better by just being a fun, caring, and energetic person.
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\nThe second video talked about interactions with parents. I think RBC does a great job in making the parents feel comfortable with leaving their child at camp. The first impression a parent gets of the counselors is seeing them all lined up on the hill looking super energetic. During the duration of camp, the counselors also write a postcard and letter every week to the parents. This way, the parents feel connected to the counselor and their child.
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\nI think Rockbrook does a phenomenal job at keeping campers safe and happy and also establishing a good relationship with parents. -
Hi again!
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\nSo I thought these videos were really helpful, especially the one about campers’ parents. A few things I took away from the first video:
\n1. Initiate!! I loved how the video acknowledge that we have to be the go-getters, the thinkers and initiaters because the girls won’t do all that on their own. And once they see us taking the initiative, they’ll start doing it too!
\n2. The video also reminded me how important it is to remember the little things – like not cursing, because we are the role models! For me, sometimes curses comes out without me even realizing it! I like to use “sugar”, “holy bananas”, and “mother of pearl” if something goes wrong. “Holy bananas I forgot to bring my sunscreen again!” These are so funny and silly, hopefully it’ll catch on with the girls too.
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\nAfter watching the second video, I realized how important it is for parents to feel secure about their child going to camp. It’s like their child is wandering into a great, unknown world where they have barely any control. For a parent, that can be terrifying. I believe Rockbrook sends parents newsletters and e-mails about the kids, and I think that’s great! I feel like I’m not just responsible for the camper, but for the parents as well. What kind of stories will their daughter tell about me after getting home? I need to make sure those are good stories, so parents feel safe bringing their child back to Rockbrook.
\nDoes the staff get to meet parents at the beginning of each session? How involved are parents with the move in? I’d be happy to meet my girls’ moms and dads before third session.
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I found this video to be very informative and true. Currently, as a college student, I can take time for myself and miss a class if I need to… However, at camp the circumstances are different. I couldn’t imagine just leaving campers hanging as they showed in the video. I feel that each activity and experience is vital for the campers, and it is my job to be there too.
\nAlso, I am excited to spend 1 on 1 time with the girls getting to know them. I 100% agree that if you take the time to get to know campers and let them get to know you, camp will be much more fun.
\nAs for the camp romances, I do not see that being a problem at an all girls camp… between staff or campers. But, I do agree that it would be incredibly inappropriate to display that kind of behavior in front of such an impressionable age group.
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\nFor the second video, I couldn’t have agreed more.
\nI know during my camp experiences, I vividly remember my counselors being the most amazing girls. I looked up to them and more than likely mocked everything they did because I thought they were so “cool”.
\nDuring camp, I hope that I am able to exemplify a really great counselor for these girls to look up to. Parents rely heavily on the counselor to make their kids experience the best it can be, and I look forward to doing just that. My mom always worried about me and my sister when we went to camp, and it was always hard to say bye… but upon returning home, I think we talked her ears off the entire way home.
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I really liked how the first video mentioned our responsibility as role models for the girls. Even if we don’t realize it, a camper is almost always watching what we do/listening to what we say, and I remember when I was younger I always wanted my counselors to think I was “cool” and would end up picking up some of their habits…so if we do/say something inappropriate the kids will definitely pick up on it! I am also pumped to get to know each girl individually and spend some 1 on 1 time with them
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\nI thought that it was awesome that the second video showed the parents’ perspectives. It’s so important that parents feel comfortable leaving their kids with us, and that they feel like we will take care of them just as they would. And when the parents are comfortable and excited about their daughters time at camp, it will make it that much easier for the girls to adjust. -
Hi again!
\nI thought this video was especially applicable because it focused on the change from ME to KIDS. As I’m making the switch from camper to staff this year, I will be experiencing this change of focus as well, which is why this video is so important.
\nMy favorite counselors in the past were always the ones who were genuinely in spending time with the campers. I’ll have to keep that in mind this year! It’s also important that the parents feel comfortable with their kids in the short time that they meet the counselors. -
Hey everyone!
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\nI really enjoyed the first video because of the wide variety that KIDS covers, not only are we required to be kind, but to constantly be aware of what we say and do, make sure the children are safe, and on top of that we have to have initiative. I have full faith in everyone, I just found it very interesting that it was all laid out in that way.
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\nThe second video was also interesting for me. I have been thinking a lot about the impact that I am going to have on my campers, and my own expectations for myself, but it never occurred to me that the parents would also have expectations of me. I mean, it makes sense, but this video just really struck home. -
Hey folks!! I hope everyone had a fantastic Easter holiday, and that the Easter bunny was wonderful to y’all! I’m munching away on some Starburst Jellybeans as I type!
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\nMy apologies for being a bit behind on this round of videos. These 2 and 3-a-day finals have been brutal!!! I’m sure all of you are feeling the same, and I hope y’all are acing them all I love the speaker’s beginning line of getting to know your campers. Based on the ladies I’ve met through this website, I certainly don’t see like that being an issue. I love getting ideas from people’s suggestions on ways to get to know your campers. They will remember you for the rest of their lives, and you will remember each one of your campers. They, and everyone else at that camp should remember you for your enthusiasm, kindness, and the time you spend one-on-one with each camper.
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\nI love how the video shows that really sad scene of the girls waiting half an hour for their leader to show up. They’re excited for the activity and to hang out with the counselor, but when the counselor is a no-show, it’s heart-breaking. The girls feel like they are a bother, and not the priority. Absolutely unacceptable. That should never happen at a camp. It surely won’t happen with me, and I know for sure, that it won’t be an issue with my fellow counselors The kids are your priority. You were hired because you were the BEST of the amazing applicants. Don’t just live up to your job description, or what you promised Sofie and the staff in your interview. Exceed your expectations and promises! (Preaching to the choir of AMAZING and LEGENDARY counselors. I guess this is more of a self-reminder).
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\nMOSTLY EGOTISTICAL (brilliant acronym actually); just about sums up the mentality of many college kids. There’s independence. You don’t have some one reminding you to use your manners or that “the world doesn’t revolve around you”. I see it everyday. I even see it in professors. It’s frustrating. I guess I’m preaching to the choir again. I can’t see myself or any of you putting a camper in that position
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\nVery important to be reminded that the campers will follow your example. It’s not a bad idea to stop and think “Is this really a good thing to do in front of others? Do I want a bunch of other children to behave in the ways I do? “They listen to you if you listen to them”. Very simple, but powerful. Why should they give you their time, if you don’t have the decency to lend them an ear, shoulder to cry on, or someone to let off some steam? Kids know when they feel like they’re being bothersome, and that is an excruciating realization for them.
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\nI’ll wrap up my ramblings of this particular video here, and as soon as I see the second one, I will do another post! I’m sorry this one came out wordy and preachy! Not my intent. Just more of something I need to keep in mind (and will).
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I love how one of the fathers said “We are placing our whole world in the hands of others”. And, “Treat every child like your child.” Those two quotes are probably the most helpful, and powerful of the whole video. Most of us counselors aren’t parents, so we can’t always relate to that. Yet, many of us have siblings. Not nearly the same thing, but it’s probably the best way to make that comparison for me. If it were my younger sibling, I’d want and expect the counselors to treat my brother like his own unique person. He’s not just another face in the crowd. He is a beating heart, a whirring brain, an impressionable human being. These campers are no different, and shouldn’t be treated as such. Those words aren’t just advice for fun, they are also to insist on safety. As said, these parents are putting the lives of their entire world in the hands of a stranger, who they believe is definitely qualified to be there. We have a duty to not only make sure the child is happy, but the parent is pleased. They determine whether or not the child will be allowed to come back for more fun in the future!
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\nThe parents said their children talked the most about their counselors. That is very meaningful to all of us, I think. It reminds us that what we do will be noticed and remembered. Much of what we say and do will shape them. Again, we need to do things that we actually WANT the kids to retell their parents. We want them to adopt the good qualities in all of us.
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\nThis video really gave some brilliant advice, especially for newbies. They stressed the need to include others, and emphasized the need to accommodate the needs of your campers. Part I of this is where I feel like groups can go wrong. In many groups of people, there are always a few that kinda are just feel like they are for the ride. The 3rd+ wheel. It’s an awkward position, so they try and hide in the background and go unnoticed. You have to remember though, that everyone’s there for a reason. They’re not there to hold up the wall. They are there because they wanted to be, and had an interest in that activity. They just might be a bit shy to walk up to someone new. I remember being the new kid in a new school. It’s scary, but eventually, you will approach others and develop friends. Sometimes, kids need encouragement. It may help if you know of other children who have similar interests or hobbies. You might be able to introduce the little girl to people she never would have thought existed. You never really know what you’re missing out on if you don’t try to meet new people.
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\nFor example, when I started college, I didn’t have a roommate picked out until about a month before I moved into my dorm. The first time I met her was at Freshman orientation. We’d never met, not even on Facebook. We happened to be in the same major, listened to the same music, had the same sense of dry humor, had similar daily routines, so we decided to become roommates. We are about to embark on our 3rd year of living together. No regrets on anything. I consider her a really great friend, and I can’t honestly imagine having not met her. These people are brought into your life for a reason. Take advantage of it while you can!
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\nOkay, now that was a lot of rambling, and kinda went off on a tangent. I’m sincerely sorry about that! I just get fixed on certain little points and I take my spins on those
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CHRISTINE made a wonderful point. During staff orientation we will make wonderful lifelong friends, but once camp begins the campers take priority. It’s a bit of a tricky balance to strike, but we can just as easily find joy in friendships with our campers as we can with our peers.
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\nI’m glad so GRAYSON was able to dislodge the pretzel from her throat! Although this strays a bit from the video, it’s an important reminder to us all about food safety. (Sounds ridiculous- I know!) Many times during meals at camp the girls get so excited. They’re singing, they’re chatting away about their day, their chowing down (just wait until a birthday cake comes out!) Major choking hazard! We’ll need to keep an an extra eye on our girls during mealtime. It’s fun to model full chewing techniques and mindful swallowing!
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\nI love that DEBORAH pointed out that the most memorable counselors are the ones who spend the most time with their campers.
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\nLINDSEY thanks for asking the questions about parent interaction! We have you watch this video about parents’ thoughts and feelings and then you’re left wondering- wait, will I even get to meet my camper’s parents? On opening day you will have the opportunity to meet the parents. They help the girls move in and like to talk with us a bit. As counselors we are responsible for carrying trunks and other luggage, but many times the parents like to help out with this. It helps them feel involved with the move-in process. It’s important to answer any questions that parents may have to put their minds at ease, but our first priority is always the camper. Even as we talk with the parents we should focus the majority on our attention on their daughter. This can counteract potential homesickness and will help parents feel more comfortable as they leave.
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\nANNA GRACE pointed out that as college students (or whatever walk of life we are in at the moment) we have the luxury to take a little time for ourselves when we feel like we need it. Although camp provides us one free activity period a day and two leaves a week, it can be a bit of a transition to have our free time planned out for us. It’s important to engage in activities during free time in such a way that we come back roaring to go.
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\nKIM spoke to one on one time at camp. Camper’s LOVE when their counselors take the time to really get to know them. You’ll find out amazing things about your campers (what their mom wrote to them in a letter, their hamster’s name, the boy they danced with at a Camp Carolina dance, ect..) Remembering these little facts about our girls really puts the cherry on top of the camp sundae.
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\nCOOPER agreed with Deborah that her favorite counselors were the ones who spent the most time with her campers. Just another statement supporting how important this is! Our campers are so much fun- I promise you, this will be something that you’ll want to do! (You’ll develop six-pack abs from laughing so much.)
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\nCOURTNEY spoke to initiative. Whew! If we could sum up our job in one word it would be initiative. We initiate safety protocols, games, bonding times, ect..ect..ect.. (the list goes on and on!) The video reminds us that as counselors it’s ineffective to just go through the motions of the day. We should seize every moment and initiate!
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\nEMILY brought up many great points! She mentioned that we should aim to have only our good qualities rub off on our campers. So true! We can do this by engaging in all of the behaviors Emily mapped out for us- showing enthusiasm and kindness, taking initiative in our activity areas, placing our attention on our girls, and spending quality time helping our campers get acquainted with camp and make new friends. Wonderful advice! -
Video #1
\nI really liked that this video focused on taking the “ME” out of everday life. I know that it can be very hard as teenagers to focus on people other than ourselves, and in camp life we need to focus on the “KIDS”. I never really thought about it in the big picture. A lot of kids are very unsure of themselves (especially in the middle ages) and taking the focus off of me and putting it on them and thier acheivements and good deads could really help them be more proud of who they are as a person.
\nVideo #2
\nI like this video because it was parents speaking about how they felt about thier kids at camp. I know that it must be hard for parents to just leave thier kids at a camp for weeks at a time and leave them in the hands of another person whom they really dont’ know. I never thougth that they would have expectations of us and what we needed to be doing to help thier kids. I kind of thought only we as councilors thought of the expectations that we gave ourselves.
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I really liked the acronyms for ME and KIDS in the first video. As camp counselors, we need to find joy in providing the magic for kids at camp, not experiencing the magic of camp for our own selfish benefit. The part about initiative was really good because we oftentimes do have small amounts of time where a game or short activity would fit in perfectly. This keeps the girls engaged and doesn’t allow down time for them to be cliquey or tired. Games are also super fun, even for the counselors!
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\nThe second video was so cute! I loved hearing parents talk about their experiences with camp, especially since I’ve had similar conversations with my parents about my own camping experiences. It really inspired me to be the best I can be, even when I may feel burnt out or tired. The idea of counselors as role models truly can’t be stressed enough. I remember imitating my counselors so much as a child. I really liked the quote about finding the one part of every child that you truly love. It’s very important that all children are included and that counselors don’t pick favorites. The favorites game can be truly devastating. -
The second video had the biggest impact on me. I went to Rockbrook for years as a camper and knew that my parents had to do a lot to send me there, but it was great to hear from parents. As a camper, I always recognized that my counselors had an impact on me, but that video was a reminder to me just how important my job will be this summer. Like the first video said, while this summer is going to fun for me, camp is really all about the girls and helping them grow as independent girls with good morals. It made me more cognizant about my behavior even now and I am going to be sure to be the best I can be this summer for the girls.
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#1: It’ll definitely be a big transition to get used to completely putting somebody else’s needs before my own. Total rearrangement of priorities! But I think that that will be a rewarding thing like nothing else could be. Instead of focusing on making ourselves happy, we get to share that happiness that we’ve experienced with others! It’ll be really neat to be a role model and I’m looking forward to forming bonds with the campers and mentoring them.
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\n#2: “This is the best job you will ever have!” Getting the parents’ perspective was very interesting for me. They really are putting a lot of trust in us, to leave their kids in a foreign place in the hands of strangers, maybe for the first time. It’s up to us not to let down not just the kids, but the parents as well (okay that sentence was worded a little weirdly, but you get the idea!) I also adore the idea of finding the part of every kid that you can love. There’s something special in everybody. That made me remember an activity that we did in my cabin one year where everybody could write down anonymous things about the other girls in the cabin that they liked or admired about them, and before bed we would read them all. It gave us a chance to think about the really special, unique things that we liked about one another. Maybe I can get that started in my cabin this summer– I think it was a really fun and beneficial thing for all of us. -
So, I thought both videos were very useful! I like the KIDS (Kindness, Initiative, Discretion, Safety) focus! It is really great to have this easy way to remember what camp is all about.
\nI loved the second video with all the input from the parents! I think it is so important for us to be aware of what the parents expect. It has to be tough to send you child away for any amount of time with very limited communication and they want their children to be in the capable hands. That may seem obvious but it is definitely important to hear.
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Video #1: I think the most important part of this video was the comment that campers emulate their counselors, not only just wanting to spend time with them but they also imitate the way their counselors act and talk to others. I also enjoyed the bit about trying to spend time with each of your campers. AS a former camper myself, my favorite counselors were the ones who spent the most time with their campers.
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\nVideo #2: Parents put a lot of trust in a camp and their child’s counselors. The comment I heard over and over again in the “hopes” section was that their child would ultimately have an enjoyable time and want to come back to camp, It’s hard to not enjoy a summer in the heart of the wooded mountains, but it’s really up to the counselor to ensure that every camper is taken care of and having a good time. Hearing parent’s hopes, fears, and reflections on camp really helped get another perspective on summer camps. -
Did anyone else think the question about staff romances was funny? Who would think that staff romance is appropriate as long as all clothes stayed on?? haha… ridiculous. My standard answer for if I have a boyfriend (regardless of the real answer) is “Boys have cooties!” My senior line girls know I don’t mean it, but it makes them stop asking questions!
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\nAnyways… another good set of videos. I thought it was really great for them to point out that camp is about trying new things in a safe environment. The few weeks that the campers are at RBC are something that these girls look forward to all year long. They are so excited to get to see their friends and experience a different kind of freedom than being at home. We just have to remember that we are the responsible parties and have to make sure they are being safe at all times. Sometimes camp jokes can get carried away, but we have to know what the limit is.
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\nIt was really great to listen to what parents thought. I can’t imagine what it is like to drop off a child at camp and leave them under the care of mostly college aged women. That first impression is a big deal. It is so important to make sure the parents feel comfortable leaving their daughters with us, especially for first time campers.
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So, I’m rather late in posting this… but anyways, I really enjoyed the videos. And Eva, I totally thought the long clothes answer option was hilarious. I told some of my friends about it. I agree that using the acrostic helped a lot. I think the emphasis on spending time with each camper daily is really important. I hope I consistently do that. I also liked the emphasis on initiative. I really like planning activities and lessons and such (I’m in an education program…) but sometimes I have trouble coming up with spontaneous ways to fill little gaps of time so that will be a fun thing for me to learn to do. I already know a bunch of games that I’ll try out but I’m super excited to learn some from other counselors’ “bags of tricks”.
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\nFor some reason, I hadn’t really thought a whole ton about parents. I tend to be really student/camper centered when working with students or campers. I’m excited about about writing letters to parents. It’ll be cool to keep them in the loop and I love writing letters. I used to spend a month at my dad’s every summer and really missed my mom and I know how it affected her too so some of the concerns are similar. And we found a lot of cool ways to deal with missing each other and to keep in touch. We wrote in journals and swapped when we got home and sent a lot of mail. My sister, brother, and I also had a hershey’s kiss for each day and we wrapped the wrappers into a growing ball. But, most importantly we found ways to stay busy. I loved the emphasis on being inclusive and being an authentic role model. I think one thing that is really cool about summer camp and education is that as someone who is a role model camp counselors/teachers/”surrogate caregivers” have the responsibility to know themselves and be themselves. I think its great that parents realize that too. I love that one parent said that her child came back a “better version of his or herself”. I’ve mentioned before that I talk about Outward Bound all the time… I was totally serious. I definitely came back from that as a better version of myself and its really cool to hear that camp can be similar. -
Video 1: Becoming a Youth Development Professional
\nI know that in college I don’t have to consider the effects my actions will have on others. While I always try to be a good friend and a good student, I rarely have to be held accountable for the safety and well-being of others. This is what the video calls the “mostly egotisitical” or “M.E.” mindset that many counselors are in during the school year. It’s important to realize what a drastic switch being a camp counselor is from being a college student. Instead of focusing so much on myself, my first thought will be the safety of my kids. The video aptly defines this as “kindness, initiative, discretion, and safety” or “K.I.D.S.”. While these acronyms are kind of corny, the message is really important!
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\nVideo 2: Speaking of Camp
\nHaving worry-wart mom, I know how important it is for parents to trust their child’s camp counselor. I talked to my mom about what it was like to drop me off at camp after I watched this video and she said that it was always really hard. She told me how eager she was to meet my counselor before she left me at RBC for my session. She wanted to make sure that the counselor seemed positive, enthusiastic, and responsible. That’s a lot to expect from a first impression! I know that the first day of a session must be really hectic for the counselors, but I think it’s a really important to chat with the parents of each one of your campers for at least a few minutes to make sure that they’re at ease with placing their child under your care for the next few weeks. I’m definitely going to do my best to translate my enthusiasm and excitement about getting to know their child in the brief time that we have while they drop their daughter off. I really liked the parent who said that this is the best job any one could have I’m sure it will be! -
Sorry I’m so incredibly late to the boat for all of these!
\nVideo One: Youth Development Professionals
\nSuch an official title! I really liked this video because it really made me realize what an example counselors are. I definitely remember like worshiping my counselors and doing everything they did, and it’s really weird to think that I’ll be in a similar position. I definitely identify with the M.E. sort of behavior: during the school year, I’m used to looking out solely for myself, most of the time. The way I speak and act will rarely effect anyone but myself. However, this summer, I’m going to have to make sure that I act out the principles of the K.I.D.S. Like Sarah said, while the acronyms are a little corny, they really are true.
\nVideo two: Speaking of Camp
\nI thought it was really cool to see a parent’s perspective on sending their son or daughter off to summer camp. It was a little sobering, because it made me realize how much faith a parent is putting in camp by letting someone else care for their child for up to a month. It actually reinforced the points about K.I.D.S. from video two, because it made me realize that since there will be no mom or dad, we’ll have to step up and be good examples, like a parent.
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